“The Secret of a Happy Relationship…” the Best Advice That I Have Received

This is expert relationship advice everyone needs to hear.

Whether you are single, dating, in a relationship, or married, you will learn the relationship secrets you never knew you were missing.

This is not the same stale relationship advice you’ve heard over and over again. The fresh advice you hear in this episode will jumpstart your relationship or help you find real and lasting love.

Learn the simple habits of all happy relationships, how to find a great partner without a dating app, and get the quick advice you need to hear to improve your love life instantly.

Matthew Hussey is here to help Mel give relationship advice that will make your love life come alive, no matter what state it’s in right now. For more than 17 years, Matthew has been helping people feel more confident and in control of their relationships. His YouTube channel is number one in the world for love-life advice, with over half a billion views, and he is a New York Times bestselling author. Today, he is helping you.

Listen for the best advice you will hear for finding love, falling in love, and keeping in love.

If you liked this episode, you’ll love listening to Matthew’s first episode next: The Best Relationship Advice No One Ever Told You, and for more great relationship advice, 3 Requirements of a Good Relationship‍

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In this episode:‍

• 6:10: The biggest mistake most people make in relationships.
• 9:05: Did you stop doing this with your partner?
• 10:20: You have to do this to keep your relationship fresh.
• 13:00: This is a major reason for infidelity.
• 16:25: Your committed relationship is a comfortable home and not a hotel room.
• 21:00: What does a love story look like to you?
• 26:10: Stop looking at your relationship like a fiction novel.
• 30:10: Here’s what to say to your partner when their habits are the opposite of yours.
• 33:10: Mel’s husband, Chris, hated every time Mel did this.
• 37:45: What should be a dealbreaker in a relationship?
• 43:10: When you’re growing and your partner isn’t, try this.
• 44:45: If your partner addresses your concerns with contempt, it’s time to talk.
• 45:35: 6 things to try if you’re single and not meeting anyone.
• 50:45: What if you're tired of using dating apps?
• 57:30: If you’re frustrated with the dating scene, here’s what to do.

Matthew Hussey:

• Matthew Hussey’s book, Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What).
• Matthew’s website.
• Matthew’s Instagram.‍
• Matthew’s YouTube.

Additional Resources:

• Matthew Hussey: How to have ‘that’ conversation
• Harvard Business Review: How to have difficult conversations
• Harvard Business Review: 4 things to do before a tough conversation
• New York Times: The best relationship advice we’ve gotten so far this year
• New York Times: Can new love survive mismatched texting styles
• Chicago Tribune: How to have the “what are we?” conversation
• Forbes: A psychologist explains relationship eclipsing
• Forbes: How to make room for more meaningful relationships in your life
• John Hopkins University: 12 elements of healthy relationships
• Harvard University: How to let your purpose find you
• Stanford: Building and maintaining healthy relationships
• The New York Times: 6 Ways to Strengthen Your Relationships
• UCLA: Want a happier marriage? Stop demanding change from your spouse
• The New York Times: Reaction to Good News Matters More Than Reaction to Bad