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Episode: 21

3 Truths You Need to Accept About Other People

a Solo Episode

Struggling to get your friends and family to change? The real problem might be you.

Learn the 3 hard truths about other people that will transform your relationships - and how accepting these truths makes life easier.

Packed with research, advice, and takeaways, this episode also addresses what to do when your growth annoys loved ones.

Learn how to let go, find peace, and focus on what truly matters.

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You can make them dinner. You can make them laugh. But you cannot make someone else change.

Mel Robbins

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Key takeaways

  1. When you feel frustrated, check your ego and ask if you’re coming from love or from judgment, because only one of those will truly help someone grow.

  2. If someone’s behavior consistently drains you, shift your own boundaries instead of trying to force them to change. That puts you back in control.

  3. Stop being mad that people aren’t who you want; loving someone means accepting them for who they are and who they’re not right now.

  4. Your changes often confront people instead of inspiring them, because they reflect what’s missing or unexamined in their own lives.

  5. If you want someone to change, they’re more likely to do it when they believe it’s their idea, not because you lectured or pressured them.

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